Victim Mentality: Knowing and Acting
One of my learning's so far in 2016 has been around "victim mentality or victim mindset." Recently I caught myself in this mindset but having an understanding of what I was doing helped get me back on track. This year I needed to enroll in a class in order to renew my certificate. With enrolling in a course comes the work that goes with it. I believe there are about 6 documents that I need submit, a portfolio and eventually a presentation to make. As the year as progressed, I have fallen behind. Doing their part, my advisors reached out to me last week to check in and offer support. As the week went on I became tired and as the emails rolled in I became defensive, I found myself saying (in my head) some of the following: "Half the things they are having us do don't make any sense." "If they wanted them by a certain time, they should put hard due dates on them." "What kind of support have they given me?" "Half the assig