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Victim Mentality: Knowing and Acting

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One of my learning's so far in 2016 has been around "victim mentality or victim mindset." Recently I caught myself in this mindset but having an understanding of what I was doing helped get me back on track.  This year I needed to enroll in a class in order to renew my certificate. With enrolling in a course comes the work that goes with it. I believe there are about 6 documents that I need submit, a portfolio and eventually a presentation to make. As the year as progressed, I have fallen behind. Doing their part, my advisors reached out to me last week to check in and offer support. As the week went on I became tired and as the emails rolled in I became defensive, I found myself saying (in my head) some of the following: "Half the things they are having us do don't make any sense." "If they wanted them by a certain time, they should put hard due dates on them." "What kind of support have they given me?" "Half the assig

Living the movie Groundhog's Day?

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The quote in the picture below triggered something in me around the first of the year. I began to wonder about how this year could stand out and be different from previous years. Please don't get me wrong, I am very grateful for the years I have lived and the experiences I have been fortunate to have. I have been able to travel across this great country and see some of its most historic and beautiful places. I have a very supportive family, a beautiful wife and kids, a career and even two dogs that don't annoy me all the time. Most years would be difficult to top. I mentioned in my first post that I went out seeking ideas from people in Facebook land on ways to make 2016 memorable. The idea to create a list and have others help generate ideas came from Sir Richard Branson, founder of Virgin Group. To mark his 65th birthday, he announced that he would take on 65 challenges . Following his lead, my list is drafted and the adventure of ticking off some of them is underway.